Recently I’ve found one interesting post - "41 ways to melt a women's heart". And it was really interesting to know what men think about this. I was pleased to see that our men are trying to make us feel better. I picked some facts and added my own woman view to them. I’m not trying to depreciate these tips I just want to make them a little bit real :)

Call her when you’re feeling sad (but be careful here, call when you are ready to get her “happy” help, do not call when you are depressed cause you can just spoil your relationship with your gloomy mood)

Occasionally call her by her first and middle names (I can’t see here anything touching but may be someone likes that :)

Kiss her eyelids (no objection, but don’t forget to kiss other parts of her ;)

Order coffee for her, remembering exactly how she likes it. (But be sure that you remember that)

Mention your upcoming anniversary before she does. (Believe me, I’ll mention it earlier :) it’s just the women nature to remember such details, and it’s normal)

Take her to a cabin with a fireplace. Build her a fire. (Nice! Try to feel some kind of primeval being…)

Hug her when she gets jealous. Hug her hard. (I’m not sure that it helps… It’s better not to make her jealous)

Ask her specific questions about her work. (But be ready to listen to all that “specific” facts)

Kiss her between her shoulder blades when she turns her back to you to go to sleep. (But be ready that you both won’t sleep then…:)

In the middle of a conversation, tell her you love her. (But try to not misuse these words)

If she’s too stressed to want sex...
a. Run a bath for her.
b. Give her a full-body massage.
c. Ask if she wants to wrestle.
(Interesting ideas, especially about wrestling)

Pick her clothes up off the floor. (And pick yours too :)

Wash her from head to toe in the shower. (I love this idea completely!)

Take her to see your favorite sport live. Pay more attention to her than to the game. (I don’t think that it’s a good idea! It’s better to see the sport that you both are fond of! Sport live is for sport but not for look at each other!)

Ask her to dance. (And go to dance when she asks you)

Send her very expensive flowers when you screw up. (It’s better to send her very expensive flowers without any reason…and even not very expensive)

If she’s crying on the phone, go over to her place. Immediately. (Perfect! No comments!)

Send her something in the mail. Anything. (Anything still should be a little romantic)

When she’s feeling insecure, stare into her eyes and tell her there is no-one in the world who could be as right for you as she is. (And please be Sincere!)

Be sincere in any action - that will really make our hearts melt! Thank you boys for trying to understand us – that is really touching :)

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eMusia 2008-02-26 03:51:16 Do such guys really exist? Sounds too good to be true like getting lost into the real love with a big L:( Reply | Quote 0   0

Haney 2008-02-29 11:33:43 Guys should be reading this! Reply | Quote 0   0

Kit 2008-03-22 14:44:29 Mostly ok- except for 'It Reply | Quote 0   0

joe 2008-05-09 20:35:47 There are men like this, but we simply don't behave this way for any woman. It takes time for us to figure out if the person we are with is worth pulling out all the stops. As the writer suggests, the key to all of this is sincerity - if we did this for every woman we've ever dated, it would take away from the moments that we really wanted our woman to know how special she is. just my .02 Reply | Quote 1   0

Luna 2008-06-23 22:03:47 For joe, that's true... Reply | Quote 0   0

Missa 2008-08-09 18:50:47 I don't think there are any guys who will do all of these things, but just doing a couple of those things every now and then are nice, and remember every woman is different. Reply | Quote 0   0

broken heartz 2008-09-05 06:45:33 ive done a few things off this list...although i cant do all of them she still left me for another guy....said i was the perfect boyfriend the week before, then bam left me =[ Reply | Quote 0   0

mel 2009-05-13 07:10:28 my boyfriend actually does most of these things :) Reply | Quote 0   0

>_ HeartsFire 2009-09-15 07:39:08 Don't Know What Guys You Girls/Women have met or been with i've done Zillion more things than this you don't just have to follow whats written just be creative ....Ciao >_< p.s Romance isnt Dead. & Some Fairy Tales do come true depends where You Look >>>> Reply | Quote 0   0

MAK 2010-05-21 03:29:17 I love being called by my first and middle names! I think it's so cute and insightful that this was included in the list. Reply | Quote 0   0

 

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