Top Self-Belief Hacks for Men
Monday, 14 September 2020

It would be great to have confidence naturally, but it’s never that simple. Confidence needs to be built, and self-belief comes from hard work, but that doesn’t mean that it isn’t worth the effort to be the more confident man you want to be.

How Do I Know if My Self-Belief is Lacking?

Perhaps you don’t realize just how much your own restrictions are preventing you from achieving more. Do any of the following signs ring true for you?
  • You avoid trying anything out of fear of failure
  • You’re unable to achieve personal goals through lack of motivation
  • You’re afraid to step out of your comfort zone
  • You don’t feel confident speaking out for yourself
  • You lack general confidence in your own abilities
  • You have a negative relationship with yourself
If so, here’s how to start believing in yourself again.

Work to Change Your Mindset

The only thing which may be stopping you from achieving what you want is yourself. Trying to embrace a more positive mindset is key for greater self-belief. Naturally, this can be challenging when you feel a lack of confidence but take it one step at a time. If you’re afraid of stepping out of your comfort zone, ask yourself why — what’s the worse that can happen? Will you be richer for the experience? Will you learn something valuable?

Collect Motivational Resources

It’s now easier than ever to find and access information which can truly help you. Websites like Masculine by Design have been formed to help men struggling with self-belief issues, and those who want to adapt their lives for the better — mind and body.
Taking the time to check various resources like this can help you to receive support and inspiration during your journey, as well as tips and tricks on how to strive for success.

Reconnect with Yourself

Self-belief comes from having a positive relationship with yourself, and giving yourself positive reinforcement. If you find that your low self-esteem means you’re constantly criticizing aspects of yourself, it’s time for a change.
Try making a list or keeping a journal of the positive things you like about yourself — only the positive. Try even to change negatives into positives. Keep a gratitude journal to remind yourself of everything in your life you have to be grateful for. Focus on the positive.
Get to know yourself a little better to understand where your strengths lie. Instead of always focusing on weaknesses, connecting with yourself means you can better understand what you’re good at and what you like to do. Earn respect and affection for yourself.

Try New Things

If you lack self-belief because of failure, then learn from your mistakes and try again. Failure isn’t about being less worthy; it’s about learning and moving closer to the right steps.
Feeling like a failure at everything might mean that you simply haven’t found something you can succeed at yet. It could be a new job, a new hobby or learning a new skill. Once you’ve found something, you’re naturally good at and passionate about, the self-belief and success will follow.


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