Gaining Confidence for that First Date

 It is very easy to become nervous on a first date. According to the experts the thoughts you entertain the most dictate your reality. So, here are some confidence-boosting pointers to keep in mind if feeling nervous. 

 1. “I am beautiful, funny and smart”


The perfect combination of qualities to take on a first date. As you get ready for your big night keep repeating the phrase to yourself, at least 5 times over. Don’t worry who hears you as you make your way to a positive attitude.

2. “Of course he’s interested, he messaged me!”

Not convinced your guy actually is interested? Well, why wouldn’t he be? Remember he asked you out on a date. It must be because you are beautiful, funny and smart. 

3. “I do not need to convince anyone!”

You are not here to convince anyone of your worth, just to be yourself. Remember that it was he who asked you out and that counts for something. 

4. “Relax, it’s just dinner.”

Yeah, it would be nice if this was the first date in a series of exciting relations. But, this is not always the outcome. Be relaxed and ensure that you are actually enjoying the time you have. Remember the whole point of the evening is to have fun.  

5. “Que Sera, Sera”

There is a way things work out when they are meant to be. Trust in the natural course of events to either bring the two of you closer or push you farther apart. Remind yourself of what has gone well and rest assured that more good will come.

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