4 Tips for Better Luck in Love in 2020
Thursday, 02 January 2020

 Love is tricky, but as anyone who has experienced real love in their life will tell you – it's worth it. Finding love is no simple task. Many people become discouraged when they think of love as simply being in the right place at the right time, because that isn’t something you can control. You can’t control love either, but you can give yourself a leg up.

 While love isn’t an emotion you can control, you can give yourself the confidence and preparation to go out into the world as the best version of yourself. Putting your best foot forward is a great way to catch someone’s eye before you even know their name. 

With these few tips, you’ll see that presenting yourself as confident and collected is a step in the right direction to finding true love.

1. Smell Good

People don’t really consider the effect that smells can have on someone. Think about when you walk into someone’s home for the first time. More than the visuals, the first thing that really hits you is the smell. That first scent can tell you a lot about how that person lives.

The same is true for how you smell. If you don’t smell good, people will immediately make assumptions about you. This includes anything from how you smell as you walk by to how your breath smells. Brushing your teeth regularly is the obvious answer to that, but what about smelling good overall? 

You can go for perfume or cologne, or you can go for a more subtle approach. Try pheromones. With a little research, you can find some of the best pheromones for women or the Best Pheromones for Men.

2. Be Positive

With the world as messy as it is, it can be hard to feel good about anything. That’s why people are so drawn to those who are positive – when appropriate of course, since being positive all the time is just as exhausting as always being negative. 

Smiling at strangers, looking people in the eye, and saying good things about others are all ways to be more positive, and thus people will be more attracted to your lighthearted energy. You don’t have to be positive all the time but you should as often as you can.

3. Be Confident

Self-confidence is something that troubles a lot of people. If you don’t believe in yourself, others will pick up on that. That’s where the phrase “fake it ‘til you make it” comes in. It sounds corny or maybe even harsh, but it’s true. If you aren’t confident, then fake it! Don’t go so far that you come off cocky, but if you fake confidence, then others will pick up those vibes and be more attracted to you. Eventually, your true self-confidence will improve, too, so it’s a win-win!

4. Don’t Try Too Hard

A lot of people try desperately to be the perfect person. In doing so, they come off less authentic and less interesting instead. Don’t try to force yourself to be someone else. Be who you are and try to bring positive traits and behaviors into your life in a way that works for you instead. By improving your attitude, without changing your core personality, you’ll find the best version of yourself.


Finding your love isn’t about being the ideal person. It’s about being yourself at your highest point and about finding someone who appreciates all of you. Instead of trying to change it all, simply alter a few lifestyle choices like this list and see what love will bring you in 2020!

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